When your child is sick, you want to do everything you can to help. It might seem like your needs can wait. Or you may feel guilty for taking a break. There's no question about it—it's important to spend time comforting and caring for your child during cancer treatment. But when you take care of yourself, you can do a better job of caring for your child. Here are some things you can do.
Different things work for different people. Maybe taking a walk or reading a book lowers stress for you. Or maybe just spending time alone helps you relax. Some people have a spiritual practice they rely on in times of stress. Make some time to do whatever works for you.
People will want to help, but they might not know what you need the most. Think about daily tasks that don't need to be done by you. Cleaning, grocery shopping, car pools, dog walking, or yard work might make that list. Let others take on some of these things for you.
This is a stressful time, and it can strain relationships. People cope with tough times in different ways. Sometimes it's hard to understand when people cope differently than you. Try not to judge those close to you for how they respond to the stress. Make it a point to connect with the people you care about. You could send a quick text to check in with a friend. Or you could plan lunch alone with your partner. Strong relationships help you stay stronger for your child.
Physical activity can help decrease stress and increase energy. Take time to walk outside or visit the gym. Even walking around the hospital on days when you don't feel like you can leave will help.
Meal planning probably isn't at the top of your mind. But keeping up your strength during this difficult time is important. Try to pack nutritious snacks, such as fruits and vegetables, to take to the hospital. Or choose healthy options from the hospital cafeteria. Try not to skip meals or use the vending machines for meals.
Some treatments for cancer can cause infertility in both men and women. Also, cancer treatment in children may affect their future fertility. Infertility from cancer treatment may be temporary or permanent.
Whether or not your cancer treatment will affect your fertility depends on many things, such as how many radiation treatments you get or the type of chemotherapy you have.
Before you begin your cancer treatment, talk to your doctor to find out if your fertility could be affected. Your doctor may refer you to a fertility specialist. If preserving fertility is a concern for you, knowing your options can help you know what to decide.
Options to help preserve fertility in men may include:
During treatment, use birth control. Radiation to the testicles and some chemotherapy can damage sperm and cause birth defects. If you are having chemotherapy, you need to use a condom during sex because your semen may contain chemotherapy medicines. Also, your partner may need to use birth control.
After treatment, it may take some time to find out if you are fertile. If you have very low sperm counts or if treatment has caused problems with ejaculation, you still may be able to father a child using assisted reproductive technologies.
Options to help preserve fertility in women may include:
During treatment, if you have not gone through menopause, you (or your partner) will need to use birth control. Getting pregnant during treatment should be avoided. Cancer treatments can harm a developing baby (fetus).
If your child has cancer, talk to the doctor to find out whether treatment will affect your child's future fertility. This is important even for young children who have cancer. If treatment could affect your child's fertility, ask the doctor to recommend a fertility specialist. This specialist can work with your child's medical team to try to preserve fertility.
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