Sometimes children who’ve been sexually abused have physical symptoms, such as genital or anal pain. But more often a child will have changes in behavior, like knowing more about sex than expected or having nightmares or mood changes. If you notice symptoms or behaviors that concern you, talk to your child’s doctor.
It can be hard to diagnose sexual abuse. If possible, the child should be seen by a team of child abuse experts. They'll do a physical exam and interview the child and the parent or caregiver. They'll also ask about the child's medical history and about any changes in the child's behavior.
If you suspect someone who's close to you, it may not be safe to take home information about child abuse. And it may not be safe to search online on your devices. Consider asking a trusted friend to keep this information for you or to help you find online resources. Or you could use a computer at a public library.
If you've done online searches, it may be a good idea to clear your device's search history so no one can see the sites you visited. Search for "delete browser history" to learn how.
If you're concerned about your or your child's safety, it's important to plan ahead. Think of places you could go or people you could call for help. You may want to save or memorize their phone numbers. And you might pack a bag so you can leave quickly. Talk to your doctor or a counselor. They can offer resources and support.
Child sexual abuse is any sexual contact between an adult and a child (or between an older child and a younger child). This includes sexual acts and touching. But it doesn't always involve physical contact. For example, showing pornography to a child or taking nude photos of a child is sexual abuse.
Normal sexual play is not sexual abuse. Normal sexual play occurs between children of similar ages who spend time together. It usually involves looking and touching. It's playful and mutual, not forced.
Often children are sexually abused by people they know, like a family member or caregiver. A child who has been abused may be afraid to talk about it. The abuser may threaten or persuade them not to tell. The child may worry about getting the person in trouble. Or a child may feel that they are to blame for what happened.
Sexual abuse is never the child's fault.
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