Sometimes it's hard to tell if a teen is using alcohol or drugs. Parents may worry that their teens are involved with drugs or alcohol if they become withdrawn or negative. But these behaviors are common for teens going through challenging times. These behaviors may also be signs of a mental health condition, such as depression.
It's important not to accuse your teen unfairly. Try to find out why their behavior has changed. Tell your teen that you're concerned.
Experts recommend that parents look for a pattern or a number of changes in appearance, behavior, and attitude, and not just one or two of the changes listed here.
Signs that a teen may be using substances include a:
Teens may try a number of substances, including alcohol, drugs, and tobacco. Teens use alcohol more than any other substance. Marijuana is also commonly used.
Other substances teens use include:
Your teen will need a complete evaluation to determine the level of substance use and the presence of other mental health or medical conditions.
If you need to place your teen in a treatment program, look for one that uses evidence-based practices to treat substance use. Cost may also be an important factor to consider. Be sure to ask how long treatment may last and how much it will cost. High price is not always a sign of the best care. Also find out what insurance plans are accepted, what they cover, and what kinds of payment plans the program offers.
A good program should include:
The program should include group and individual counseling along with support and self-help groups. These groups need to be separate from adult groups. Counseling may include cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT). It can help your teen learn coping skills to prevent future substance use.
Treatment needs to include a way for your teen to continue their education. Doing even a small amount of schoolwork during treatment may help boost your teen's self-confidence.
Most likely, family therapy will be part of the treatment. You need to provide support and encouragement for your teen both during and after the program.
Treatment programs should provide time for your teen to pursue a hobby or interest. Having interests they can continue after treatment will help your teen have something healthy to do rather than use substances.
Special services such as mental health services, vocational (job) training, and counseling are important parts of treatment that need to be part of the program. If your teen has other conditions, such as depression, attention deficit hyperactivity disorder (ADHD), or anxiety disorder, these conditions should be treated during substance use treatment.
A treatment program should require that your teen not use substances during treatment. Random urine drug screens can be used to monitor teens during treatment and even in an aftercare program.
Relapse (returning to substance use) is common after treatment for substance use. The program should help your teen make a plan to deal with cravings, high-risk situations, and relapse.
An aftercare program should keep your teen involved and around people who are staying sober while in recovery. This helps lower the chance that your teen will relapse.
Many teens try substances like alcohol or drugs. Some try them only a few times and stop. Teens who keep using substances may form a strong need for them. This can lead to substance use disorder. Substances teens may try include tobacco, alcohol, marijuana or other drugs, household products (inhalants), and prescription or over-the-counter medicines.
Teens may use alcohol or other substances for many reasons. For example, they may do it because they:
Teens tend to try new things and take risks, so they may take drugs or drink alcohol because it seems exciting.
Substance use can become a serious issue and lead to long-term problems, injury, and even death. For example:
Substances can include more than illegal drugs like heroin or meth. You also can have problems with alcohol, marijuana, prescription medicines, or medicines you can buy without a prescription.
You may have substance use disorder and need help if you have any of these signs:
If you think you need help:
If your teen is using alcohol, tobacco, or other substances, take it seriously. One of the most important things you can do is to talk openly with your teen about the problem. Urge your teen to be open too.
Try not to use harsh, judging words. In most cases, an angry face-to-face meeting will push a teen away. Be as supportive as you can during this time.
If you don't know what to do or if you don't feel comfortable, ask for help. Talk to your teen's doctor, a pediatrician, a psychologist, or a psychiatrist.
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